It can be done with the Expression Tool.

… Finale doesn't give me these options …

Expressions are document specific, not program specific.

If you do not see Vivo and Larghetto in the Expression Selection window, consider loading an expression library - or create the expressions yourself.

To load a library:

File menu > Load Library…

To create an expression:

In the Expression Selection there is a button for creating a new expression.

I hope that this is clear?

If not, ask again.